What’s the way to be happy?

Have you ever wondered what is the way to be happy? What you need to do to be happy? It is really very simple. If you want to be happy you have two options: or you change the situation or you change your attitude towards it.

Have you noticed something? What these two options have in common?

Either way you choose, it is depending only on YOU.

YOU can choose to be happy! What are you waiting for?

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42 thoughts

  1. You raise some valid points. What happens, though, when you’re trying to change and it seems like the universe is holding you still?

    1. You change your attitude towards it ๐Ÿ˜Š Or you can always try another way, another option…but is only depending on us ๐Ÿ˜Š
      Thank you for stopping by! Have a lovely day!

  2. We wonโ€™t always win. There will be times when we fail no matter what, but itโ€™s how we decide to handle it that matters. Do we criticize ourselves and find ourselves wrapped up in a ball of discontent, anxiousness, and depression? Or do we decide to hold our heads high and be kind to ourselves instead? I choose kindness from this point forward. What point is there punishing ourselves? None, thatโ€™s what. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’•

    1. Great attitude Hilary! Our journey is made from ups and downs but as you said we decide how to handle them. Believing in ourselves and being kind with ourselves, will make us pull through, no matter what! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•
      Wish you a wonderful evening! ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ˜Š

      1. Iโ€™m eating popsicles while watching Kristin Neff on Ted Talks, as suggested by my therapist. I think it was an evening well spent. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

  3. Wonderful Post Ribanna โœจ It is indeed depend on us. There shouldnt be a post to show where happiness is, or how to be happy. But people changed. They are mentally not happy . Let such posts enlighten them and make them stay happy again ๐Ÿ™‚ โœจ Stay positiveโœจ stay happyโœจHave a good day๐Ÿค—โœ๏ธ

    1. Thank you Simon! Yes, unfortunately nowadays people are too busy and too stressed and they often forget to enjoy the small things that makes us happy! What we shouldnโ€™t forget is that we have only one life and we should try to not waste it! Have a wonderful and happy day! ๐Ÿ˜Š

  4. So true Ribana!๐Ÿ˜Š
    I completely agree with you. Happiness is a choice and we have to realise that we have to create our own happiness. No one else can do that for us๐Ÿ˜
    Have a wonderfully happy day!๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ˜€

    1. Thank you very much! Very true! Happiness is a choice! Important is to realize that is up to us to choose to be happy ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
      Have a wonderful and happy day! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒบ

    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

      1. have I said something funny Mrs. Ribana??? OMG!
        ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

      2. You did it again ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

  5. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ got you!
    I wanted to see how it looks like ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I’m still naughty I guess
    It only depends on YOU! The magic words have been spoken too bad many don’t know that it only depends on them ๐Ÿ˜Š May we always choose to be very happy and enjoy this life just as the perfect chosen picture!
    Have a great happy day ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

    1. You are too funny ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ
      True! I think some are to busy to realize it and some even if they realize it they are too scared of this โ€œresponsibilityโ€…I think is easier to complain or just be sad…
      But as you said, may we always chose to be happy and enjoy life! We only have one! At least for now ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿง๐Ÿค”
      Be happy! Stay happy! ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿคช

      1. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
        Itโ€™s always easier to give up and blame the world, too bad!
        Letโ€™s hope weโ€™ll have more than 1 life ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ reincarnation is the solution ๐Ÿ˜‚
        ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

      2. True!
        No, eternal life is the solution ๐Ÿคช๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚
        I donโ€™t want to risk and come back maybe in a cockroach ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ

      3. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ OMG or come back poorer ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

  6. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ I can’t change my tragic situations but thanks for the reminder that happiness can still happen. It’s time for me to change my attitude toward it. It’s easy to forget when you’re too busy feeling sad.๐Ÿ˜Š

    1. No, we cannot change what life brings us but yes we can change our attitude toward it ๐Ÿ˜Š and we have the option to chose ๐Ÿ˜Š Stay positive and stay happy ๐Ÿ˜ƒHave a wonderful day Jessica ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒธ

      1. Thanks Ribby (it’s fine right? I’m use to cutting names and Hug calls you that so I assumes this is fine? ๐Ÿ˜Š )
        Have a great day too <3

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